Back To Basics

You know that feeling where you know exactly where you want to be but the space between where you currently are and your destination just seems so far apart. Well that’s exactly how I’ve been feeling lately. There are so many things I want out of life. So many things I wish to achieve but I just feel like I’m always going around in circles…going nowhere slowly! Whoever said your 20’s are your hardest years was not lying. You come across so many challenges and sometimes you dont even recognise who you are because you're just constantly trying to find yourself.

I remember a time when I used to beat myself up everytime for not being where I wanted to be in life. I'd get so frustrated that people my age are moving forward in life and i'm just stuck. Like why does this life thing have to be so difficult? However I soon came to the realisation that peoples journeys are not the same nor is ‘finding yourself' a destination. Finding yourself is a journey that is unfortunately never ending. We are going to keep discovering new things about ourselves almost every day. We are going to keep coming across trying times where we'll feel like giving up. We're also going to outgrow certain things, even people whom we thought we could never be without. And sometimes its going to require us taking a few steps back in order to move forward. 

Growing up is not easy! We can’t control the events that happen in our lives. So if you have been feeling like I have just remember this... Just because you are not where you want to be doesn't mean you will not get there. Everybody grows at different seasons, your time is yet to come...